About signs

Signs are everywhere, all the time. We might not see them, and if we see them, we might not understand them. And even if we do understand them, we might not want to follow them. All this to say that signs are mostly not useful to us, but it is our fault. They are given to us (by whoever or whatever you want) as a help. Up to us to accept to be helped or not.

Every person you meet carries a sign, or some signs, for you. There is no coincidence. Every feeling and everything that happens has a meaning. The biggest thing is to be able to connect to that meaning without making any mistake and without hurting anyone, not even yourself.

As we have so few words to describe what we feel, we mostly say : « I have a connection with that person… I’ attracted to that person… I love that person… ». But we might be wrong. Attraction or love are different things. Connection is the right word. Oh I’m not saying that it can’t be any attraction or love in this new relationship we’re building, but sometimes, it’s not about that. It’s just about meaning.

I just met you because I was in need of something, and you’re here to answer my question. Even if you don’t know it yourself. The simple fact that you exist will open new doors to me, and my existence is opening new doors to you…

I’m quite sure that no one is really understanding my point because all of this stays very dark, even for myself. I’m just starting this « instrospection » thing (is it the right word in English ?) and doing it in a language which not mine, believe me, it’s quite hard… What I just want to say is that… if we take time to think quietly, to feel quietly, and to meet that new person in the right place, every thing becomes clear. But we have to open our minds to this idea of « not a love thing ». We have to be able to think beyond the classical way « I met him he met me and that was it… we crushed ». There isn’t only one way to connect with someone… let’s take time. Time without each other, time with each other.

You might have a message for me,I might have one for you… and this is also what connection is about… Having a role to play is someone else’s life… isn’t it beautiful when you think about it ?